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Discover what your messages
really reveal about your relationship.

Your conversations can say far more than you might think. Whether it’s a romantic relationship or a friendship, ScanMyLove analyzes your text messages.

The Essential report costs $3.70 and the Premium report $4.49.

Understand my relationship
🔒 No sign-up🚫 No data stored Results in 2 min

ScanMyLove looks at different aspects of your conversations using 14 psychology-based frameworks, including attachment, communication patterns and relationship dynamics. Your report includes examples from your own messages, along with personalized insights and recommendations.

Your report is available immediately after the analysis.

Want to see what you’ll receive? View a sample report.

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If you have any questions after receiving your report, email us at contact@psychologieetserenite.com. A practitioner will reply within 48 hours.

Gildas Garrec
Gildas GARRECCBT practitioner Psychologie & Sérénitéwww.psychologieetserenite.com/en

Thousands have already scanned their relationships

Thousands of people got clear answers about their relationship.

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What our users say

Thousands of people use ScanMyLove to better understand their relationships.

I thought our relationship was fine, but the report highlighted an imbalance in our communication that I hadn’t seen. We talked about it together and it really helped.

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Sarah, 28 years old

In a relationship for 3 years

After my breakup, I needed to understand what had happened. The analysis of withdrawal patterns in our messages was very enlightening. I recommend it 100%.

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Mike, 32 years old

Post-breakup

The free dashboard is already incredible. Seeing the stats of our messages made me realize he was responding less and less. The full report confirmed my doubts with concrete data.

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Emma, 25 years old

Long-distance relationship

The chat is amazing. It’s like talking to a caring therapist who truly knows your story. It helped me step back before a difficult conversation with my partner.

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Jake, 35 years old

Going through a rough patch

I was skeptical but the fact that everything is anonymous convinced me to try. The attachment analysis was so accurate that it made me cry. A valuable tool.

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Chloe, 30 years old

Unsure about her relationship

After 8 years together, I couldn’t understand why he had left. By analyzing our conversations from the last months, I saw the evolution in black and white: shorter and shorter replies, plans he no longer mentioned, gradual disengagement. It hurt, but it helped me stop blaming myself.

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Stephanie, 41 years old

Post-breakup after 8 years

I never thought I’d use this tool for a friendship. But after months of tension with my best friend, I analyzed our WhatsApp chats. The results opened my eyes: I was the one maintaining the relationship for months.

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Christine, 55 years old

Friendship

I analyzed a year of chats with my partner: confirmed he’s avoidant and I’m more the anxious/dependent type 🙂. So insightful and strikingly accurate.

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Emma L., 30 years old

WhatsApp couple analysis

I had a 30,000-word conversation with my boyfriend: the results were surprising and incredibly insightful. I really didn’t see any of it.

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Madison R., 27 years old

Long conversation analysis

The report quality is impressive and so easy to read. It spotted signs of control I had never identified.

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Jennifer B., 34 years old

2-year couple analysis

Super fast and relevant analysis: in a few minutes I had a clear read on how we communicate. A genuinely well-made tool.

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Kayla M., 25 years old

Messenger analysis

A year and a half of messages with my husband analyzed: the report puts very precise words on an imbalance we felt but couldn’t explain.

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Samantha D., 38 years old

Couple analysis

After my breakup, I analyzed our ten months of conversation. Understanding the patterns helped more than weeks of ruminating.

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Amanda T., 29 years old

Post-breakup analysis

I was skeptical, but analyzing three years of messages gave a nuanced, solid result, never guilt-inducing. Impressively relevant.

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Nicole K., 41 years old

Relationship analysis

I analyzed my dating-app chats. I understood why it always fell apart at the same point 🙂. Easy to read and very clear.

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Taylor V., 23 years old

Dating app analysis

I analyzed a year of WhatsApp with my girlfriend: confirmed I was the avoidant one. Hard to hear, but very insightful and well explained.

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Jake P., 33 years old

WhatsApp analysis

We analyzed two years of our conversation together. The report is clear and we read it as a couple: it opened a real, calm discussion.

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Kevin G., 36 years old

Couple analysis

Thousands of messages analyzed in minutes. I realized I always replied out of sync — a source of misunderstandings. Fast and relevant.

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Brandon R., 28 years old

Text message analysis

A genuinely relevant tool: analyzing a year of chats gives an objective read of the relationship, far from heated takes. Clear, well-structured report.

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Tyler B., 31 years old

Conversation analysis

How does it work?

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Upload

Export your conversation or take screenshots from any messaging app and drop the file. No account needed.

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Analyze

14 clinical psychology models (Gottman, Young, Bowlby, Chapman, Karpman…) are automatically applied in seconds.

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Understand

Get your statistics dashboard for free: your scores across 10 dimensions, made clear. To go further, the Essential report — personalized recommendations and a dedicated assistant — is available for $3.70.

What your report reveals

Concrete answers to the questions you have about your relationship.

Pricing

Essential Report $3.70. Premium Report $4.49.

One-time payment, secured by Stripe. Chat included.

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What Your Texts Say About Your Relationship - ScanMyLove