Your conversation reveals everything
about your relationship
Upload your messages or screenshots from any conversation. Receive a comprehensive report based on 14 clinical psychology models: scores, charts, action plan.
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How does it work?
Upload
Export your conversation or take screenshots from any messaging app and drop the file. No account needed.
Analyze
14 clinical psychology models (Gottman, Young, Bowlby, Chapman, Karpman…) are automatically applied in seconds.
Understand
Receive a comprehensive report: scores across 10 dimensions, charts, personalized action plan and an assistant who knows your situation.
What your report reveals
A structured, visual report — not just a plain text opinion.
Analyses
10 relationship dimensions independently evaluated
14 clinical models
Gottman, Young, Bowlby, Chapman, Karpman, Sternberg…
20+ charts
Interactive visualizations: radar, bars, timelines, heatmaps
Action plan
Personalized recommendations tailored to your situation
Personal assistant
Ask your questions — it knows your report in detail
PDF export
Professional report to keep or share with a therapist
A clinical methodology, not an opinion
validated clinical psychology models
charts per report
anonymous — no data retained
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What they say about us
Thousands of people use ScanMyLove to better understand their relationships.
"I thought our relationship was fine, but the report highlighted an imbalance in our communication that I hadn’t seen. We talked about it together and it really helped."
Marie, 28 years old
In a relationship for 3 years
"After my breakup, I needed to understand what had happened. The analysis of withdrawal patterns in our messages was very enlightening. I recommend it 100%."
Thomas, 32 years old
Post-breakup
"The free dashboard is already incredible. Seeing the stats of our messages made me realize he was responding less and less. The full report confirmed my doubts with concrete data."
Léa, 25 years old
Long-distance relationship
"The chat is amazing. It’s like talking to a caring therapist who truly knows your story. It helped me step back before a difficult conversation with my partner."
Julien, 35 years old
Couple in difficulty
"I was skeptical but the fact that everything is anonymous convinced me to try. The attachment analysis was so accurate that it made me cry. A valuable tool."
Camille, 30 years old
Questioning her relationship
"After 8 years together, I couldn’t understand why he had left. By analyzing our conversations from the last months, I saw the evolution in black and white: shorter and shorter replies, plans he no longer mentioned, gradual disengagement. It hurt, but it helped me stop blaming myself."
Nathalie, 41 years old
Post-breakup after 8 years
"I never thought I’d use this tool for a friendship. But after months of tension with my best friend, I analyzed our WhatsApp chats. The results opened my eyes: I was the one maintaining the relationship for months."
Christine, 55 years old
Friendship
"I thought our relationship was fine, but the report highlighted an imbalance in our communication that I hadn’t seen. We talked about it together and it really helped."
Marie, 28 years old
In a relationship for 3 years
"After my breakup, I needed to understand what had happened. The analysis of withdrawal patterns in our messages was very enlightening. I recommend it 100%."
Thomas, 32 years old
Post-breakup
"The free dashboard is already incredible. Seeing the stats of our messages made me realize he was responding less and less. The full report confirmed my doubts with concrete data."
Léa, 25 years old
Long-distance relationship
"The chat is amazing. It’s like talking to a caring therapist who truly knows your story. It helped me step back before a difficult conversation with my partner."
Julien, 35 years old
Couple in difficulty
"I was skeptical but the fact that everything is anonymous convinced me to try. The attachment analysis was so accurate that it made me cry. A valuable tool."
Camille, 30 years old
Questioning her relationship
"After 8 years together, I couldn’t understand why he had left. By analyzing our conversations from the last months, I saw the evolution in black and white: shorter and shorter replies, plans he no longer mentioned, gradual disengagement. It hurt, but it helped me stop blaming myself."
Nathalie, 41 years old
Post-breakup after 8 years
"I never thought I’d use this tool for a friendship. But after months of tension with my best friend, I analyzed our WhatsApp chats. The results opened my eyes: I was the one maintaining the relationship for months."
Christine, 55 years old
Friendship
Why not a regular AI?
ScanMyLove is not a chatbot. It’s a structured analysis tool based on clinical models.
| General AI | ScanMyLove | |
|---|---|---|
| Clinical models | 0–2 if asked | 14 automatically |
| Reproducible scores | Different answer every time | Calibrated and consistent scores |
| Charts | Plain text | 20+ interactive charts |
| Long conversations | Exceeds context limit | Any length accepted |
| Personal assistant | Loses context | Knows your report in detail |
| Data | Conversations stored | Anonymized and deleted |
| Access | Sign-up required | No account needed |
Clinical models
0–2 if asked
14 automatically
Reproducible scores
Different answer every time
Calibrated and consistent scores
Charts
Plain text
20+ interactive charts
Long conversations
Exceeds context limit
Any length accepted
Personal assistant
Loses context
Knows your report in detail
Data
Conversations stored
Anonymized and deleted
Access
Sign-up required
No account needed
Pricing
Free statistics dashboard. Essential Report at €1.90. Premium Report at €9.90.
One-time payment, secured by Stripe. Chat included.
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Important : ScanMyLove is an information tool and does not replace the advice of a mental health professional.