14 clinical psychology models
One single report
ScanMyLove doesn’t give an opinion — it produces a structured, scored and reproducible relationship diagnosis based on validated clinical methods.
The 14 models
Each model sheds light on a different aspect of your relationship. Click a card to learn more.
Gottman Method
The 4 Horsemen of the Apocalypse + positive/negative ratio 5:1.
Young Schemas
18 early maladaptive schemas identified and scored.
Attachment Styles
Secure, Anxious, Avoidant, Disorganized profiled per person.
Cognitive Distortions (Beck)
Mind reading, personalization, emotional reasoning.
Sternberg’s Triangle
Intimacy, Passion, Commitment scored on 3 axes.
5 Love Languages (Chapman)
Words of Affirmation, Acts of Service, Gifts, Quality Time, Physical Touch.
Nonviolent Communication (Rosenberg)
Observation/Feeling/Need/Request vs. judgment.
Karpman’s Triangle
Persecutor, Victim, Rescuer.
DISC Profile
Dominant, Influential, Steady, Conscientious.
Polyvagal Theory (Porges)
Ventral (connection), Sympathetic (fight/flight), Dorsal (freeze).
Johari Window
Open, blind, hidden, unknown zone.
FIRO by Schutz
Inclusion, Control, Affection needs — expressed vs. wanted.
Walker Cycle
Tension → Explosion → Reconciliation → Honeymoon.
Duluth Wheel
8 control mechanisms (intimidation, isolation, minimization…).
Explore each model in detail
Discover how each model is concretely applied to your conversations with examples, FAQs and resources.
Méthode Gottman
Les 4 cavaliers de l’Apocalypse + ratio positif/négatif 5:1.
Schémas de Young
18 schémas précoces inadaptés identifiés et scorés.
Styles d’attachement
Sécure, Anxieux, Évitant, Désorganisé profilés par personne.
Distorsions cognitives (Beck)
Lecture de pensée, personnalisation, raisonnement émotionnel.
Triangle de Sternberg
Intimité, Passion, Engagement scorés sur 3 axes.
5 langages de l’amour (Chapman)
Paroles valorisantes, Services rendus, Cadeaux, Temps de qualité, Toucher.
Communication Non Violente (Rosenberg)
Observation/Sentiment/Besoin/Demande vs jugement.
Triangle de Karpman
Persécuteur, Victime, Sauveur.
Profil DISC
Dominant, Influent, Stable, Consciencieux.
Théorie polyvagale (Porges)
Ventral (connexion), Sympathique (combat/fuite), Dorsal (figement).
Fenêtre de Johari
Zone ouverte, aveugle, cachée, inconnue.
FIRO de Schutz
Besoins d’Inclusion, Contrôle, Affection exprimés vs désirés.
Cycle de Walker
Tension → Explosion → Réconciliation → Lune de miel.
Roue de Duluth
8 mécanismes de contrôle (intimidation, isolement, minimisation…).
Our approach
« When you have a stomach ache, you can ask a smart friend what they think. They’ll give you a relevant opinion. Or you can get a medical scan: validated protocols, precise measurements, images, scores, structured report. »
A friend gives an opinion. A scanner gives a diagnosis.
ScanMyLove is your relationship scanner for written conversations.
An assistant that already knows your story
With a regular AI, you have to re-explain everything each time. With ScanMyLove, the assistant has read your entire report before your first question.
It knows:
- ✓Your global score and your 10 relationship dimensions
- ✓Your activated Young schemas and their intensity
- ✓Your attachment style and your partner’s
- ✓Your cognitive distortions
- ✓The breakpoints detected in your conversation
- ✓Your personalized action plan
Result: you ask your question and the answer is immediately in your context. No summary to make, no context to set. It’s like talking to a professional who has your complete file in front of them.
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